HELP: “Bonking with hubby is hell”

Anonymous from Soweto writes:
I am 23-year-old woman
who has been married to a
28-year-old man for three years.
I am no longer interested in
having sex with him. What could
be the cause of the problem?

 

Dr Eve answers: 

In the beginning of any
relationship, sex is so
exciting. Its new, exploratory
and you just want to have it all
the time. Over time, it becomes
familiar and you know what to
expect which is also nice.
The danger is that if you don’t
bring in new ideas, the sex
simply becomes boring.
But it is usually relationship
stuff that gets people to lose
interest in being sexual.
I suggest you look into the
relationship issues that could be
getting in your way