Anonymous from Durban writes:
I’m 41 years old and my husband is 48. He does not satisfy me. He sleeps like a baby when I want us to make love, and when we do, he ejaculates very fast.
Dr Eve responds:
Your husband needs to know that you are sexually dissatisfied. Perhaps you have told him, maybe even nagged and complained. Which of course makes no difference to him. It will only make him ejaculate faster and lose desire for sex. You need to guide him to your pleasure, educate him and be kind. Introduce new ways of being sexual so the focus is off penetration being the only form of sexual play.