HELP: ” My girlfriend says she is losing interest in us”

Anonymous from Boksburg: 
My partner and I have been
together for almost 11 years and
we have a beautiful six-year-old
child. My girlfriend says although
she loves me, she is slowly losing
interest in our relationship. Am I
going to lose her?


Sis Naledi answers:
Talk openly about both your
goals and expectations
about the relationship.
Eleven years is a very long time
and one may expect that you
should have married her by now.
If you are not doing what she
expects from the relationship,
she may lose interest in you.