Anonymous from East London writes:
I love oral sex, but my partner hates it. I am now tired of his selfish ways. How
can I make him understand that I cannot even climax without oral stimulation?
Dr Babalwa responds:
It sounds like your partner is selfish. He should at least try to meet you halfway.
Research has shown that one out of five men do not like going down on a woman and
there are women who are not comfortable with the practice. It is important that you explain to him that you would like to share this experience with him. You also need to hear his reasons for refusing and see if you can work on them.