HELP: “My boyfriend is ashamed of me”

Anonymous from Khayelitsha writes
I have been with my
boyfriend for a year. He
has two children with different
women. We never go out or spend
time together as a couple. It’s as
if he’s ashamed to be seen with
me. I love him and want to build a
future with him and his children.

 

Sis Naledi answers: 
You need to understand the
type of person he is before
you make judgements or
accusations. It will help to talk
to him about how he views your
relationship and express your own
expectations about building a
family with him.